STRESS: An inevitable circumstance but still has to be prevented.

Yes,life can often be stressful. Stressed from school, office and sometimes peer pressure. But, can you handle multiple pressures and stress at the same time? This stress can still be prevented by the following steps:

1. Divert yourself through watching cartoons or any light movies to ease your stress.
2. Eat comfort foods like ice cream, peanuts or anything that you'd like to eat. Just forget dieting first.
3. Don't stress too much about your problem. Remember, for every problems there are solutions it will come just don't stress yourself too much.
4. Read your favorite book
5. Ask a friend to bond with you on a spa or salon
6. Always Smile,somehow when you smile you're not only destressing yourself but you're also making other people feel light and easy of themselves.
7. Visit your favorite arcade!

Always remember that "Stress is just a minor problem in your life. Just always prevent it by being positive and being light as much as possible." and "Enjoy life for it is the greatest gift that God has given us."

Well that's all I can blog for today. Hope you enjoyed reading :)

Hair Parting: Best Ways to Part Your Hair Style for Your Face Shape

If you’re like most women, hair parting­­­­ is something you do without giving the task much thought. You may have always parted your hair to the right or to the left and have never changed. However, where you part your hair can mean a lot! In fact, choosing the right spot for the part or style of the part can help you have a more flattering look or can oppositely make you look less appealing. To learn how to part your hair for your face shape or hair cut, use these beauty tips!
Center Part down in the middle
This youthful part is best for ladies with oval face shapes. It can also work on a round faced beauty but only if you have a smaller nose. Those with larger noses should never try this part, as it will only draw attention to your nose area. A center part can also work on ladies with square face shapes, if paired with natural looking curls. Many Hollywood stars use the center part when their hair is extremely long, to give it a more youthful appeal.

Side part (To the left or to the Right)
The side part is flattering on almost all face shapes and can instantly give you a volume boost at the top of your hair. It’s great for making thin hair look much thicker. It’s great for ladies with a heart shaped face, as it allows the wider upper area of the head to visually be broken up and thinned out.

Diagonal part (create illusions)

Most often the diagonal part is done when you have bangs to work with. This can allow bangs to hang in front, in a very attractive way. It gives you more width and height to hairstyles and is flattering on many face shapes. Off center parts like this also look great on round faces, as they create an illusion of the eye and make the face appear slimmer. In addition, they can be great on square faces as they blur the sharper edges of the square face shape, especially when done with layers.

Zigzag part. Get craaaazzy!!

If you want a very trendy and dramatic part, the uneven zigzag is the way to go. To do this part, you’ll need to take a comb and draw a zigzag line from the middle of the back of your crown to the front. After you’ve “drawn” the line with the comb, separate your hair from left to right. This type of part works on any hair length, from long to short and is a technique anyone can learn in only minutes. In addition, it’s the ideal part to use if you’re in between color touch ups and want to mask your unsightly roots.

How to Test a New Part Style Out

Overall, the best way to find your perfect hair part is to experiment. You know better than anyone else what hairstyles look best on you. Wait until your hair is completely dry and use a comb to test out these hair parts. You’ll be able to see what parts slim your face shape and what parts tend to bring out your less than favorite facial features. If after your home experiment you still feel confused about hair parts, ask your stylist to teach you how to figure out what hair part you should be wearing.

Be Original.. be YOU!!

Each of has his own unique taste and style,the thing is most people alter it to emulate someone they are not. They notice that when they see someone dressed perfectly because it looks good on them they immediately look for some clothes that are similar to the one they saw even though it doesn't look good on them. We all have different beauties. May it be white or black it doesn't matter as long as you stand out in your own way! Here are the ways to be original,and at the same time stand out in the crowd:

• Know what your style really is then enhance it
• Think of something like a trademark for people to remember you .
• Don't be shy to experiment on new things, being adventurous is nice because you'll never know that your style will be a trendsetter
• NEVER EVER compare yourself to others, because you still have something that others do not.
• Don't be afraid to show the whole world who you are..
• And lastly, "Do not be a second rate version of someone else. Instead,be a first class version of YOURSELF!! :)"

Hope this blog inspired you girls :)

Fashion style vs. Fashion etiquette

What is exactly the definition of Fashion? According to style icon/fashion designer Coco Chanel,

"Fashion is not something that exists in dress only. Fashion is in the sky, in the street, fashion has to do with ideas, the way we live, what is happening.

And yes,indeed fashion is great! It is art! but a lot of people abuse fashion that most people forget their fashion etiquette,losng the essence of fashion by immodest clothing. I mean like seriously,do you think people would respect you for wearing those skimpy outfits?! You can still dress fashionably but in a decent manner.
The way you look and style yourself reflects who you are and how you want people to perceive you.
Sometimes you wonder, why guys doesn't respect you and often mistaken you as a whore it's just because of how you carry and style yourself. The thing here is to just dress appropriately according to the occassion. You must act decent, prim and proper to be able to complement what you are wearing. You must also be contented on what you have, for we are unique in our own way. If you think you are not pretty or sexy enough to compete with those models always tell yourself that Beauty comes from within and Sexiness is all about attitude and confidence. It is about how you shine in your own way.

Finding your worth as a "Woman"

"Let men tremble to win the hand of woman, unless they win along with it the utmost passion of her heart."NATHANIEL HAWTHORNE, The Scarlet Letter

A lot of women from today  doesn't realize how much they're worth is. Us,women as they say..  is the divine object, violated, endlessly sacrificed yet always reborn, whose only joy, achieved through a subtle interplay of images, lies in contemplation of herself. This blog is for each and every woman out there who wants to be treasured and respected by each and every one may it be your spouse,boyfriend or any significant person in your life. 

Below are some guidelines if you want to be loved and respected as a woman:

1. Learn to love and respect yourself. If you learn to love yourself,others will learn to love and respect you back.
2. Act like a prize and you'll turn him into a believer.
3. If you start out dependent,it turns him off. But if it's something he can't have,it becomes more of a challenge to get it.
4. Don't give in easily. ALWAYS remember that the more difficult you are to get, the more that he will cherish you. 
5. Don't get easily moved by your feelings. Be STRONG.
6. Don't be afraid to stand up for yourself or speak your mind. It will not only earn his respect,but will cherish you more.
7. You have to show that you won't accept mistreatment. Then you will keep his respect.
8. A man won't simply respect a woman who automatically goes into overdrive to please him.
9. Be an independent thinker at all times,and ignore anyone who attempts to define you in a LIMITING way.
10. Lastly, the most attractive quality of all is DIGNITY.

Hope this entry helped and inspired you girls! Happy reading! :) Please feel free to share this entry if you like.

KILLER heels may look gorgeous but terrible on the feet!

"I don't know who invented high heels, but all women owe him a lot."-Marilyn Monroe

It is one of life's cruellest blows. The crushing moment when you discover that you cannot walk in the heels you've lusted after - and saved up for - for months!! 

High heels might make you look taller, slimmer and sexier, but they can also cause bunions, a bad back and, according to some, infertility. Apparently, heels over 5in make your pelvis tilt forwards and squash your reproductive organs - which is truly suffering for fashion.

But it doesn't have to be this way. Killer heels don't have to result in killer tumbles. "I love high heels as much as any woman." And in fact "They provide far more support for your arches than styles.

TIPS FOR CHOOSING FOOT-FRIENDLY SHOES

• Make sure you have the right fit. Stand on a piece of paper and draw around your shoe, then draw an outline around your bare foot. You will probably find that there are bits of your foot that are wider than the shoe. Shop assistants often say that a shoe that is a bit tight will give with wear, but if they don't fit in the shop, don't buy them. Ensure that the shoes' arches fit yours.

• Look out for shoes with straps, which provide support.

• Choose your heels wisely. A half-inch heel will obviously be more comfortable, but then you might as well be wearing flats. I think platforms and wedges are great because they look higher than they actually are. the thicker the heel the better, because it gives more balance.

• Avoid pointy pairs: the pressure they put on your toes can cause ingrown toenails and irreversible nail-bed damage that can lead to unsightly discolouring.

• Padding under the balls of the feet is crucial to avoid that nasty burning pain. If necessary, create your own by inserting Scholl Party Feet.

• Wear your heels all day or all evening, but never both. 

Traits that men find attractive in a woman

When we talk about attraction, we are not talking about lust (which is also a form of attraction). A man can be physically attracted to a woman, without any feelings of love, and this form of attraction is purely primal and is focused completely on the "body" of the woman involved. What we are talking about, in this article, is the attraction which is synonymous with love. Relationships are built on a love based attraction, so what's important would be know the traits in a woman, that men find most attractive, which makes them fall in love.


The following are some of the traits that guys find attractive in women. The list in not in any particular order of preference:

• Soft heartedness - Men are more likely to fall in love with a woman who is soft, or warm, hearted, than a woman who is cold. Guys love to be mothered (not nagged but cared for), and so they tend to fall for a woman who offers them acceptance and warmth. This would have to be the trait that men find most attractive in women. 

• Modesty - Men fall in love with the "modest" girls, and lust after the "hot" ones. Modesty in behavior, dressing and talking is what men look for in their "long-term" partner. Though guys find "hot" women attractive, it's mostly physical in nature and they lose interest after a few passionate encounters in the bed. There is also a common consent among men that "hot" women are less reliable, and high maintenance. In short, men love women who they can take home to their mother. 

• Being Feminine - "Most Men" like feminine women. Feminity is all about being soft, kind hearted, understanding and caring. This attraction is justified by the fact that men are attracted to traits in a woman which they themselves lack. 

• Character - Men are attracted to a woman who projects a strength of character and integrity. The word "fidelity" is becoming rarer nowadays even among women, who were historically more loyal of the two, and men find this to be bad news. So men are constantly on the look out for a woman who can invoke trust through her strength of character. 

• The Woman's voice - Women are naturally endowed with a beautiful voice which men find highly attractive. Some men love a strong voice in a woman, some prefer a soft tone, with a high pitch. Some women have a husky voice and many guys find that attractive too. 

• Her Smile - A smile can easily win over a male heart. If, as a girl, you are prone to having a smiling face you are more likely to be approached by guys than when you have a smug, or frowning, face. 

• Her Eyes - Next to the smile, this is another facial feature that men get attracted to. Some men simply fall in love with the woman's eyes. The eyes can speak a thousand words and this is very much true with it comes to attracting men. 

• The Woman's Hair - Most men get attracted by moderately long hair or anything close to shoulder length as that looks more feminine. Having said that, there are a lot of men who find women with short hair attractive. 

• Physical Structure - As far as physical features are concerned, men get attracted to a woman's skin tone, lips, height and waist-to-hip ratio. Contrary to popular assumptions men are not bothered much about the size of the breasts or derriere when it comes to looking for a life mate. These factors are pretty much insignificant.

• Sense Of Humor - Men generally get attracted to women with a good sense of humor. A Woman who can understand and laugh with them. Sense of humor is not necessarily the ability to crack jokes but the ability to understand and laugh at one. 

• Confidence - Last but not the least, men get attracted towards women who make them feel comfortable and confident. Woman who supports them and the one with whom he feels relaxed and open. 

So these are the important traits that men find attractive in women. But again, every man has his unique taste. The above points are common to most men but not for all. Look at it this way. A man may look for and get attracted to such qualities in a woman that he lacks himself. For instance, a tough guy will look for a soft female. Hope you got the idea.

Bear in mind that for every woman there is a man out there, so just relax and look out for him.